I guess the thing with me is that while I completely get (and don't have) a need to pretend things is aren't what they are, I just don't understand one's needs to beat whatever perceived realities of the situation are to death. If it's positive, great, we all can use some of that but if it's negative, well sure, let's chat about it if you want but let's eventually move on. Personally, it just gets so stale and if that's a reflection on me, I beg forgiveness from all... I'm just slightly tired of hearing/reading about it.